With the advent of technology, we are meeting our better halves on or via the internet. Come to think of it most of my BFFs today have met me via the internet and we are the thickest of friends today. But…the fun of meeting someone in the real world rather than the reel world is much more fun…Wanna know how to do that?
PS: Mommies this article is for our single friends or single mommies or ones getting back in the game after a separation/Divorce.
Our guest author describes perfectly as to how to meet new singles without Tinder!
How to Meet New Singles Without Using Tinder
Today, there’s a dating app for virtually every person, regardless of their likes, preferences, needs, and wants. Because of all these tech-fueled matching services, many people don’t even believe that meeting someone organically is possible. However, this isn’t the case, but modern daters may need some help with this seemingly difficult process.
It’s Not Possible to Rely on Serendipity Alone
To meet someone new, an effort has to be made. Phone chat lines and just talking with people in person are a good way to begin. However, there are still many people who are relying on “serendipity” to step in and bring them their “true love.”
If a person is ready to meet someone, and they want to avoid Tinder (and similar services), they have to try. It will not happen with fate alone. This is why it’s a good idea to use the information that’s found here.
Find and Take part in a New Activity
Look at day-to-day activities. Most people have a basic routine -; go to work, go to the gym, go home. This results in the individual meeting the same person time and time again.
If someone wants to meet a potential partner organically, they can increase their chances of this happening by going to places where people with shared interests go. Examples of places to go include acting classes, church groups, and even a dog park.
Embark on Adventures Alone
While going to an event or on a trip with a friend may seem natural and safe, some dating experts have made the claim that this can do more harm than good.
If a person attends events alone, they are more likely to get out of their comfort zone and talk to new people. No one wants to spend the entire event or trip alone.
Use the Right Body Language
The ability to meet someone new and exciting depends on how a person acts and the “signals” they give out. One of the first things a person needs to do is to smile and, for goodness sake, put down their phone. This is especially important if a person’s events get up from the table and leave them alone -; this is a perfect opportunity to meet someone new.
If an individual has their phone in their face or is wearing earbuds, it’s a clear sign they don’t want to be approached by new people.
For something to do, look around the room. It doesn’t matter if a person looks as though they have nothing to do. It’s impressive what a person can do when they put their phone down.
If a person has gone to a bar on their own, they have a much better chance of meeting someone new if they sit at the bar, rather than a table. It’s also a good idea to sit right next to someone. By doing this, it’s possible to have a much more intimate conversation. If two people are across from one another, it feels too much like an interview.
Meeting Someone New Without Technology
Meeting someone without using technology may seem pretty far-fetched, especially in the digital age, but it isn’t impossible. If a person is dedicated to meeting new people, it’s a good idea to use the tips and information here. Doing so will help ensure the best possible results are achieved and that a person’s special someone is found.
Keep on dating…